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Demeaning others – Shatter the personality and confidence

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Have you ever been in a meeting when suddenly someone says something that has an edge to it that is directed towards you or another person? It might not be said – perhaps it is a gesture, like someone tossing their eyes at something you said or laughing at someone else’s argument. Most people have experienced these kinds of behaviors, and it can make one feel very unpleasant, and this type of behavior is called Demeaning Others. Most of the times, these demeaning behaviors arise from concealed emotions. A person will become upset about some issue and instead of sharing those feelings with the person with whom they are having the conflict they decide to keep the emotions to themselves. The emotions tend to aggravate and grow over time. Eventually, they leak out as demeaning behaviors. Since the emotions can fester for some time, there is usually a period between the initial incident that triggers the emotion and the display of demeaning behaviors. This make it more difficult ...